Yesterday the kids and I read a story about a little boy named Charlie. Charlie was a boy who was spoiled by his parents. His father asked him to help with harvesting the oats. Rain was coming and they would lose the harvest if they didn't get it done in time. Charlie went out to the field and ended up causing all kinds of trouble. He hid tools his dad needed, he disobeyed what his father told him to do. His father finally told him to leave. As Charlie left he screamed, his father dropped what he was doing and ran to him. Charlie laughed.... as you can probably guess, this story was like the boy who cried wolf. Charlie did it two more times and both times his father found him laughing. Then Charlie screamed and jumped up and down over and over. His father saw him an decided he was just pretending again. He left him alone. Charlie kept screaming and jumping, screaming and jumping. Finally his father went to go see what the fuss was all about. Charlie had stepped into a yellow jackets nest and was being stung hundreds of times. Yellow jackets had gotten under all his clothes and were stinging him all over his body.
The story about Charlie is a true one. It happened in the 1860's. Charlie survived, but his body bore the marks of his disobedience.
This story had so many lessons for us to learn. I could go on and on about the herbs used to bring down his fever, the mud that was smeared all over him to bring down his swelling. Yellow Jackets are very interesting insects if you really study them (which we did yesterday). We had our own run in with a yellow jacket's nest in a straw bale in the barn. When Kevin moved it he was attacked, but he got away with only 4 stings (we thank God for that, it could have been so much worse). But the lesson that touched my heart the most yesterday was Listening and obeying your father.
The 5th Commandment is Honor your Father and Mother so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth. Charlie's parents never taught him how to honor and obey them. They allowed him to throw fits and get his way. During all of his acting up his father did not once discipline him.
Most of you know that I am a big stickler for obedience. Drives me crazy to see children deliberately disobey their parents, throw fits to get their way, whine to manipulate situations. I am not perfect, I am not the perfect parent, but I have strived hard to lay a good foundation of obedience for my children. Why? Because not only does it make life so much easier, my children are (usually) a joy to be with, but it also lays the foundation of listening to their Heavenly Father and obeying Him.
In this world that is so upside-down I think the word "obey" has so many negative connotations. People hear that word and immediately their hearts start pumping and rebellion is stirred in their souls. We are a people, a culture, that wants to do what we want when we want. We don't want anyone else telling us what to do or how to live. I get that... trust me, a rebellious spirit is strong in me. However, when your in a loving relationship, when you know that other person has your best interests at heart, you want to obey.
A kind word turns away wrath... often with my kids, all it takes is my tone of voice and a kind word and the anger is diffused, the misunderstanding is resolved and my kids are happy to do what I have asked. Obeying isn't a negative thing. It a good thing.
Being obedient often times keeps us safe. When I tell my children to look both ways before crossing the street, it's important they follow by instructions. Especially on our street! When I tell my child not to touch the pan on the stove or the curling iron on the counter. It's to keep them from burning themselves. If I tell them not to look at the TV when a horrible commercial comes on, it's to guard their eyes/mind from things they just don't need to see. When I tell them to put on their lifejackets before swimming in big waves in Lake Michigan, it's to keep them from drowning. What parents wouldn't set out guidelines for their children to follow to keep them safe? Same is true with God. He gives us guidelines to keep us safe.
By not doing what his father had instructed, Charlie had stepped out of God's protection and covering for himself. I don't know if Charlie learned a lesson from his actions, I pray he did. We all have walked away from the covering of protection at some point in our life. Some of us quickly come back, some of us take a lot longer...
Looking ahead at 2016, there are a lot of very real and scary things that are coming our way, as a country, as a world. It is my prayer that my family and friends be living in the Will of God. Or I could say living in obedience with God. For there is no safer place to be. Just like a child, I don't know all the dangers that lurk in this world ( fast cars, hot pans, strong waves...), but my Father knows and he will call a warning or give instruction to me if I need to be brought back under his protection.
God will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge. Psalm 91:4
May you see God's protective hand over your lives this year, may you find safety in His will and may He bless your life in ways you could never have imagined.
~Lyn














